Idle Parenting Means Happy Children
February 17th, 2008* wink *
Via: Telegraph:
The idle parent is a stay-at-home parent. Not for us costly leisure pursuits at the weekend. We reject the cheap thrills of expensive padded plastic fun palaces, zoos and days out in general. We find fun in our own backyards. We make aeroplanes out of cereal packets and it’s amazing how many catching and tickling games you can play with your kids while sitting on the sofa.
The idle parent is a thrifty parent. We don’t work too hard and therefore we can’t expect to be rolling in cash. With thrift comes creativity. “Waste is unpoetic, thrift is creative,” as GK Chesterton wrote. With no money, you start to discover your own inner resources. You make things and draw. Put a pile of A4 paper on the kitchen table, along with a stapler, scissors, crayons and glue, and you’ll be amazed at what your children come up with. Forget digital gewgaws. Go analogue. It’s more fun and a lot cheaper. Put a bird feeder outside the kitchen window. Fun does not need to be expensive.
We don’t care about status and career advancement and how we are perceived by others. We are free of all of that rubbish. We simply want to enjoy our lives and to give our children a happy childhood. What greater gift could there be from a parent? If our children tell their friends in later life that they enjoyed their childhood, I would count that as a great achievement. Better to have a happy childhood than a high-achieving one that brings a big psychiatrist’s bill in adult life.
“The third was born on the bathroom floor and has had to get on with his own life.”
I like that article. Too close a correlation is drawn between rigor and results, these days.